Why Wouldn’t You Choose Happiness?

I was recently watching the Housewives of someplace and they were confronting this woman about her husband abusing her and the fact that she expected them to be around him as if they knew nothing.  How can you be a fan of someone that you know is consistently abusing someone you love?  It made me … Continue reading

Back To Me

Sometime last week it hit me like a mack truck, I’ve lost me in my “growth process”.  Over the last few years I’ve focused so much on being a mother, growing at work, focusing on things that I didn’t agree with in others (and trying to make sure I wasn’t doing those same things) that … Continue reading

Random Thoughts: Becoming What You Believe

Belief cannot come from your ego self, it must come from your heart calling. ~Oprah Winfrey I am sitting watching Oprah’s Lifeclass and Oprah is talking about evolving into who you are meant to be and my mind is just wondering.  I am doing many things I love in my life but I am continuously feeling … Continue reading

Listen and React Appropriately

I was listening to a popular preacher’s sermon today. He was speaking about how God places obstacles in our path to help us grow. He gave an example of waiting for his wife to get dressed when they are going out. He said she will always say, “I’m Ready,” but never really is. He said … Continue reading

Partnership and Growth

““Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your path.” Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV) Learn something every day.  If you only lean on your own knowledge in your business, you will not be able to grow.  You must grow yourself … Continue reading

Life is Good, Stop Complaining

Today when I woke up for work my stomach decided that I should stay at home today. Of course I listened and throughout the day I had time to reflect on life. A lot of us are constantly complaining about what is going on in our life. It isn’t until you see something horrible happen … Continue reading


Some people have all the luck?  Is that a true statement? Do you believe in karma, you know the belief that whatever you do comes back to you?  I used to think karma was just something people made up, but after looking back on some things and people in my life I think it may … Continue reading

Dumb is Offensive

I was sitting back thinking about some recent events and things happening around me and it something hit me, like that ACME anvil on the cartoon………“Dumb is Offensive!”  Ok so I know this may sound harsh, but let me take you on my journey so you can understand how I got to the revelation.  I … Continue reading

Alpha Female

Last week someone told me that I am an “Alpha Female.” My initial reaction was….WTH what does that mean?  I guess they didn’t know how to take that so they responded by saying I’m not trying to start anything that just what “they” say. First LOL at “I’m not trying to start anything!”  So I … Continue reading